Challenges are Inevitable

                                           
Challenges are inevitable
By: Sero Bhae On
 

 To cry are the days when you get hurt, to be sad are the time when you remember the days you got hurt. To cry and to be sad is about pain. To all of the billion people running around the planet experiencing this feeling. You, me, them, he, she, nobody says that he never dropped a tear and felt any pain. One in a billion people who dropped a tear and felt the pain, I was one and always be like them. I have a lot of experiences to tell that made me sad and cry. As a person, I had the emotion of being hurt from painful words, painful scenes and painful experiences. One of my stories that made me cry and broke my heart into pieces. An experience that was painted in my heart and in my mind that made me feel anger. It was the day that I opened my eyes into this world when I noticed my grandmother’s anger. My grandma hated our family and I always question that thing, l asked why? She even spoke bad words to us but sometimes I never care about it but deep inside me I was being hurt. I just listen to her and sometimes mock her. She hated my family but loved the rest of her children’s family. One day, I went to her house to visit her, before going there I ate my meal first. That time she was calling me to eat dinner but then I didn’t go because I was full. She got angry and yelled a word that was too confidential to me. That word made me hate and get angry at her. That moment made me cry and it was too painful. Days past and I forgot the word but every time I see her, I always remember that word she said. That word is pointing to my family saying we are “demons”. Why is she like that? When she get sick we always take care of her, visit and still understand her situation. My family’s attitude towards my grandma was good and full of love even though I know deep inside their heart is anger but they still chose not to show. This scene made me cry and sometimes angry. But I choose not to hate her and just understand that it is just a challenge on how strong I am on love. Pain doesn’t always break a heart often times it teaches us to be strong and wise. Every time you feel pain you should still know how to love, how to be happy and how to smile. Life is all about pain and happiness. To relieve the pain, you should smile and laugh. Laugh to forget things in a moment, to forget is to be happy, to be happy means to love, forget the pain and forgive.